Wow, time flies when you’re having fun! I can’t believe it’s been 100 days since I declared I wanted to be strong and then subsequently wrote the 45 day update. So, let’s cut to the chase: I’m stronger.
First, I have something I want everyone to hear:
If you, too, want to start crossfit but worry you’re overweight or not an athlete – DON’T! There are people of all ages and sizes who go to our box and any crossfit affiliate worth attending will make you feel supported and encouraged to be the very best YOU you can be. I will never be a super lean professional athlete, but I love that I’ve found a way to exercise that is appropriate for me. Read my Confession on Starting Crossfit from less than a year ago.
As a mother I found myself always putting my own wants behind those of others. I found myself less concerned about my own health as I focused on that of my children. But lately I’ve started walking the walk instead of just talking it. It’s not enough to TELL your children to do the right things, you have to SHOW them. And just like being a good example with healthy foods, I had to set a good example for a healthy lifestyle.
I’ve had more than several conversations with my children talking about why I am not home on Tuesdays and Thursdays until after their bedtime. We all agreed on my schedule and they know when to expect me or when to expect to not see me. We talk about Saturday mornings doing Crossfit together as a family. It’s not just fun – it’s also important for their health. And of course my young boys like to watch their progress as they gain strength and skill to climb the ropes, do flips on the rings, etc.!
These are commitments we’ve made together, as a family. Having my friends and family be supportive has also been very important to my success; having my dad and sisters support me at the Barbells for Boobs event was fantastic and so encouraging! And because I know my family encourages and supports me, I have let go of the guilt associated with having less time for them. This is something I do for me, but it’s also something I do for them. I’ll be alive longer, not to mention happier and healthier while alive!
Now, onto the epic ton of visual proof about my own progress from the last 100 days!
My greatest achievement of late was even captured on video! I NEVER thought I could lift this much, especially so soon!
Oh, you want numbers to determine how strong?
Way to cut to the chase! Alright well previously I gave you numbers for front squat and thrusters, and although I still do those movements it’s just not as often. Below are the 3 major strongman movements that have measurable weights I can share. They’re my favorite and “best” numbers… I like to say squatting is my jam, man!
Jul 8, 2013 – 3×3 143lbs
Aug 5, 2013 – 3×3 173lbs
Sep 15, 2013 – 3×4 185lbs
Oct 18, 2013 – 1RM 220lbs
Goal 1/1/14: 250lbs
Jul 21, 2013 – 1RM 235lbs
Aug 4, 2013 – 1RM 253lbs
Oct 4, 2013 – 1RM 275lbs
Goal 1/1/14: 300lbs
Aug 6, 2013 – 228 lbs (114lbs ea)
Sept 6, 2013 – 330lbs (165lbs ea)
Oct 28, 2013 – 370lbs (185lbs ea)
Goal 1/1/14: 400lbs
Just in case you’re wondering, this is what getting a deadlift PR looks like.
OK, actually, it’s more like this… but the video includes explicit language, so don’t watch if at work or with sensitive ears…
We also do a lot of movements with things you may not have heard of or used before, like zercher squats, H stone, log press and variations on standard movements – like deficit deadlift. Really, if we find something heavy we just try to lift it. It’s pretty much that simple…
I’ve been SUPER excited that within the last month my ability to perform a Workout Of the Day (WOD) has been “as prescribed” (unless there’s something pull-up related). I was able to finish the Grace WOD for Barbells for Boobs in a respectable time (4 min 15 sec, my goal was 5 and I smashed it!) at the standard women’s weight of 95lbs. In fact, in recent cases I’ve been doing even more than the women’s prescribed weight.
My dad even took video… so you have an unprecedented amount of footage of me working out in this post!
On Halloween I did some bad math (anyone else lose the ability to add simple numbers when lifting heavy?) and ended up doing a heavy set of 5 deadlifts at 255lbs rather than the 240lbs I intended. So then when it came to the WOD where I went to pick up the standard kettlebell for women, I was practically thumped on the head and informed that if I could lift 255lbs 5 times then I needed to be using at least a 1 1/2 pood for WODs. Alrighty then! So I did and rocked the WOD ♥
Even cooler, things I’d been unable or afraid to do previously, like box jumps, I bit the bullet and made the effort. No more junior boxes and only step-ups if allowed… this was huge for me!
Why working out is important to me:
I’ve truly been enjoying working out. It is something I look forward to everyday. It offers me hormone regulation (estrogen, testosterone, thyroid, insulin, etc.) as well as offering a healthy boost of serotonin and adrenaline while aiding to regulate my metabolism, circadian rhythms and all kinds of awesome stuff that just makes me feel good.
For the last few weeks, due to a variety of reasons, I haven’t been able to attend as regularly. I can feel the difference in my moods and general health and wellness. Part of my intention in writing this very post is to remind myself how much I love and miss being in the gym and how important it is to me personally to get back to my commitment to make it work. Being off-track for a few weeks hasn’t derailed my months of progress, but here’s how I’m going to get back on track in order to meet my 2014 goals.
- Quit treats. Halloween was bad for business. Hosting a potluck filled with grain-free treats where leftovers lingered meant trouble… but the entire family started a sugar-detox this week, so it’s just a matter of staying strong and following-through!
- Ensure I’m getting my supplements and super foods each and every day. Lately I’ve been feeling depleted more than usual – probably the increase in sugar has thrown off my other nutrient sufficiencies. I’m ensuring that I get seafood, sea vegetables, bone broth, organ meat and pastured meat daily.
- Sleep. Honestly, this is the biggest thing. It’s what went off-track to begin with. I got behind on work, blog, etc. and kept creeping my bedtime back until before I knew it I was sleeping after midnight instead of 10pm. That’s when sugar cravings come. And efficiency slows down. So last night was the first night I was back on track and in bed at a time that gave me more than 8 hours of sleep.
- And last, but not least, doing it with others. Nothing motivates and excites me more in the gym than having friends come too. I plan on getting my sister and mother (below) CrossFitting more as well as convince other local friends (like Aimee and Courtney) to train strongman with me on Sundays.
It’s hard to give up the main part of one of my few precious weekend days, but if friends come too it’s more like a party. We can go get mani/pedis or Peruvian chicken after. And I love it when the boys come with me! They tell me how strong I am, make funny faces at all of my sweat, and then we get lunch or have a mother-son date after if they behaved and waited patiently.
Finian and Titan (who he calls Teen Titan) patiently waiting for their guardians to be done
And not to be forgotten when focusing on motivation… as I had hoped, I appear to be getting leaner. As I noted in my last post on the topic, cutting out calories less than I was consuming (around 2000/day) affected my sleep, hormones and menstruation so I have been eating when hungry with a bigger focus on starchy carbs on work-out days and more protein in general. So, although all of my clothes still fit, they continue to fit slightly differently. I notice that as my waist becomes more defined, my booty and thighs grow – my pants size remains the same. However, I’ve had quite a few people make mention of my figure changing… so that’s exciting (although NOT the point here, ladies)!
I’d love to tell you that with watching my diet and regular exercise over the last 3 months I’ve lost weight. But that’s not the case. And that’s OK. I’ve talked a bazillion times about the fact that my body REALLY likes this weight, likely because it’s slightly smaller than I was in highschool when I went through puberty and there’s evidence to suggest that’s a hormonal set-point for women. I’m just not willing to sacrifice other areas of health and performance in my life in order to get skinnier. I don’t need to be skinny. I love and respect myself, my purpose, my strength. My husband, children and family love and respect me. I am incredibly healthy. Having extra body fat is simply something akin to a different color hair at this point – it’s only about aesthetics to others. If you’re not comfortable with that, I’d like to advise you to Get Over Your Fat Phobia.
As you may recall, last post I said that the box where I train, housed The Edge 2.0, the StrongMan component of the box. Sadly The Edge 2.0 is moving, but I’m thrilled to hear that my gym is keeping the trainer I work with closely and praised in my last post to take over for a new StrongMan component itself. So, that doesn’t mean much for you, but it means for me there will likely be some changes and new faces in the StrongMan program over the next few months. And sadly, it also means that the competition that was planned for Dec 2013 is on hold. Oh well, it was only ever a competition with myself to see what I could accomplish by 2014 anyway, and I still plan to hit those goals!
- 300lb dead lift, 400lbs farmer’s carry (200 per hand) and 250lb back squat by 2014
- being able to pull a truck by whenever the competition is
- pick up the Husafell stone from the ground by Thanksgiving (yikes, that’s only a few weeks!)
- ACCOMPLISHED! Handstand without a wall by Sept 14th – it’s still not perfect but I can go vertical without touching anything but my hands to the floor!
And yes, sometimes you just need a fashion show at the gym. I loved Maria’s shirt and made her pose with me! Follow me on Instagram for more pictures almost daily!
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